Lorel left me me laying on a concrete floor with no blankets or pillow for weeks, even after asking her for help! She wont help anyone unless there is something for her to gain, I learned that first hand!
I've known Lorel Since Jr High, she was the unlikely girl to ever be noticed in school, but our school was small and you get to know everyone fairly easy.
Years had gone by, she and I got to know each other again over Facebook and Myspace. I've been an Oilfield Engineer for years and grew tired of the insanely long hours and made plans to go back to school. For years I dreamed to be a Harley Davidson mechanic. Lorel was disappointed when I chose a school in Florida over the school in Phoenix, but it had a program that would work better at first.
Upon arriving to Florida, the friends I went there with, stole everything I owned. To make matters worse, the school wasn't going to work out the way I had planned, so I decided to fly out to Phoenix and go to the school there. Lorel was excited as was I.
I ended up living a couple miles from her when I got there. My father owns a home and asked me to come stay with him. IT had been 15 years since he and I spoke, and once there, I quickly remembered why. Within a few short weeks I needed to move, things were not working there. I asked Lorel if I could come stay on her couch or her extra room while I got an apartment there. I figured since we were intimate by this point that it wasn't out of the question. She instead drove me to a shelter and left me there. That was the help I got.
For some reason I agreed to continue my relationship with her. I spent my days running errands for her in between looking for a job. At nights I would go to her house and cook for her and clean her house. If you know Lorel, then you you know those are two things she doesn't do well. After a week of staying the shelter, I again asked Lorel for a place to stay, again the answer was no. I found a guy from the school who would let me sleep on the floor at his apartment while I found somewhere to go.
This whole time I've had job offers to come back to a former employer of better than a hundred thousand a year. The job was out of state. Every time I discussed this with her, she would cry and ask me to stay. That things would break open for me and that we had a life together there in Phoenix. She's the Vice President of a staffing company and never once helped me to find a job in Phoenix. Nothing, no help at all. But I saw the huge changes in her life from my being there and I wanted to continue to help her. There's something about seeing tears from a woman who tells you she loves you, asking you to stay, that can make you lose focus of things. So I stayed.
By this time, the place I was staying was out of control. The guy was drinking ALL the time, beating his girlfriend and it was time for me to go. Again I asked Lorel for a place to stay while I found something. This time she drove me to a place she knew of and left me on a concrete floor without blankets or pillow. When I asked for those things, she always had some excuse for never bringing them. I lay on that concrete floor for almost three weeks, while still cooking and cleaning for her and her son without any help from her at all. Some times I had to have her meet me places with water so I could brush my teeth since the water was turned off at nights. I guess thats really the only help I received from her.
Sometimes the stress of the situation was extreme. When it got to be too much on some days, she would get me stoned on marijuana that she has. THAT'S RIGHT! She gets pot from her jiu jitsu friend that lives in Winslow AZ. He delivers it to her from there because she is afraid she might get caught in Phoenix because she is a public speaker.
During the whole time I went through all this, I would accompany her to public events where she was recognized for her achievements for helping others. An interview with ABC news, the opening of her new business Revitalize Bodyworks in Scottsdale AZ. Then follow her home to cook for her and her son again, only to go home and sleep a concrete floor.
Finally the day came that I confronted her about these things, I asked about her actions. the answer I got was basically, "fuck you". When "I heard that, I picked up the phone and accepted the job offer that was open to me. I didn't even receive a ride to the airport from her. I was shocked!!! Here is a national Public speaker on healthy relationships, having done all this in her own personal life. This is what I went through.
Since then, she has put a huge twist on things, posting on her site about me. Trying to invent a story about new abuse she has endured. Trying to sell a story in short. Her dreams are to make money at the expense of what she tells you. I left a comment bout it, and she left it on the post since I took a nice approach to her story. Friends of mine have read it and keep asking bout the story. Since then I went back and wrote a comment of exactly what I have now written. She has deleted it. She doesn't want you to know the truth!
I have learned first hand, Believe me, that unless she can gain monetary or public stature, she is not out to help anyone. I have SERIOUS doubts that the story she tells about her past is truth after seeing what she did to me! If you have any questions, you can contact me further at travis610@yahoo.com and I'll explain further. There are plenty of extra details to what happened. This is the outline of what she is all about. The story behind who she is when no one is looking. She fooled me once too.
